Hi all!! If I still have anyone reading this, I apologize for not blogging more often. The summer is so short in the northland that I try to shove everything into a month of summer!
Silver Lining:
Well, let's see. Have you ever gotten into a fight with a person you love? It sucks right, it gets all emotional and frustrating. Guys don't seem like they are caring enough and the gals seem like they are overreacting. Well, here's the deal, at least you have someone that you care about that much! I mean, the reason we fight with loved ones is in part because we care so much about their opinions of us. Good for us if someone loves us that darn much that they are willing to fight for the relationship!
It could be worse:
You could have no one to fight with, you could live your life lonely.
Life Coach:
The next time you are fighting with a loved one try this, stop and smile and tell them how much you love them, how cute they are etc. I find that the more mature I get, the easier it is to do this. You really must care about them to have this work though. Trust me, I have been on both sides of this ledger.
Homework:
Do the above, but don't get in a fight on purpose!!
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Friday, June 19, 2009
Hi all, I'm back from some out of town business!
Silver Lining:
Well, I had some financial woes and was pretty stressed but I have to give my girlfriend credit on this silver lining. I went over to see her and warned her that I was stressed out. She asked me why and I started bitching about my little crisis. She said with some relief in her voice, "Oh it's just money." At first I thought, what the heck but then I realized she just cut through it all. I still have my health, my family, a great woman who loves me (no idea how that happened), and great friends. I'm employed and love what I do. Thanks Tina!
It Could Be Worse:
I am still able to earn a living. Many people in this country are struggling, got laid off, lost their car dealerships that have been in their families for generations.
Life Coach:
When you have a problem, talk to someone you respect about it. They help! Oh, and when you have a friend or a loved one that needs you to listen, stop what you're doing and listen. You can and will make a difference in their lives.
Homework:
Ask a friend/loved one how they are doing and listen listen listen.
Silver Lining:
Well, I had some financial woes and was pretty stressed but I have to give my girlfriend credit on this silver lining. I went over to see her and warned her that I was stressed out. She asked me why and I started bitching about my little crisis. She said with some relief in her voice, "Oh it's just money." At first I thought, what the heck but then I realized she just cut through it all. I still have my health, my family, a great woman who loves me (no idea how that happened), and great friends. I'm employed and love what I do. Thanks Tina!
It Could Be Worse:
I am still able to earn a living. Many people in this country are struggling, got laid off, lost their car dealerships that have been in their families for generations.
Life Coach:
When you have a problem, talk to someone you respect about it. They help! Oh, and when you have a friend or a loved one that needs you to listen, stop what you're doing and listen. You can and will make a difference in their lives.
Homework:
Ask a friend/loved one how they are doing and listen listen listen.
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Hi everyone!
Silver Lining:
OK, I just got back from spending 3 days at my hunting place. I call it the Trabin cuz its a trailer house and I like to think of it as a cabin type get away. Of course one of my partners in the place Eric (Erck) hates that name so I use it as often as I can. Anyway, it really helped me get over some stress that has creeped into my life as of late. And having Tina there and Erck come up for a night was very helpful. I know stress can be a big bummer in life. It's hard to handle and can overwhelm you easily. But here is the silver lining, most situations pass and just aren't that big of a deal once you really break it all down. I have no idea how you deal with stress but I bet we all have a way that works (and many that don't).
It Could Be Worse:
Well, I guess the issues I have been dealing with are somewhat personal but suffice it to say, they could be far far worse. I have my health, 2 kids who love and respect me, great friends, and a chick who digs me more than I probably deserve.
Life Coach:
Try to focus on what is good in your life. I think we spend far too much time dwelling on what could be better when we need to spend some time being grateful.
Homework:
List 5 things that make life worth living and just reflect on them.
One last thing: LOVE YA BUBBA! HANG IN THERE ME BOY!!!!
Silver Lining:
OK, I just got back from spending 3 days at my hunting place. I call it the Trabin cuz its a trailer house and I like to think of it as a cabin type get away. Of course one of my partners in the place Eric (Erck) hates that name so I use it as often as I can. Anyway, it really helped me get over some stress that has creeped into my life as of late. And having Tina there and Erck come up for a night was very helpful. I know stress can be a big bummer in life. It's hard to handle and can overwhelm you easily. But here is the silver lining, most situations pass and just aren't that big of a deal once you really break it all down. I have no idea how you deal with stress but I bet we all have a way that works (and many that don't).
It Could Be Worse:
Well, I guess the issues I have been dealing with are somewhat personal but suffice it to say, they could be far far worse. I have my health, 2 kids who love and respect me, great friends, and a chick who digs me more than I probably deserve.
Life Coach:
Try to focus on what is good in your life. I think we spend far too much time dwelling on what could be better when we need to spend some time being grateful.
Homework:
List 5 things that make life worth living and just reflect on them.
One last thing: LOVE YA BUBBA! HANG IN THERE ME BOY!!!!
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Hi everyone, I'm going out of town until Sunday so I won't be blogging over the weekend.
Silver Lining:
Well, I went golfing last night and man did I suck! I mean I couldn't hit the ocean from the beach. It was frustrating because I had played a pretty good round a couple days ago. So where's the silver lining? I tell you what, I had a great time with my buddy Eric (Erck). We drank some beer and just had a hell of a time. I love golf but I suck and Erck never makes me feel badly about it. He just enjoys the day. It's hard to stay pissed when you golf with that guy!
It could be worse:
I'm just glad I still have the physical ability to golf, albeit badly! I can't imagine how it must feel to really want to do something fun and not have the ability.
Life Coach:
Remember, you can choose to have fun or be mad when bad golf rounds happen. Just remember those less fortunate than yourself.
Homework:
Spend some time with your buddies! That's what life is all about! Thanks Erck!!!!
Silver Lining:
Well, I went golfing last night and man did I suck! I mean I couldn't hit the ocean from the beach. It was frustrating because I had played a pretty good round a couple days ago. So where's the silver lining? I tell you what, I had a great time with my buddy Eric (Erck). We drank some beer and just had a hell of a time. I love golf but I suck and Erck never makes me feel badly about it. He just enjoys the day. It's hard to stay pissed when you golf with that guy!
It could be worse:
I'm just glad I still have the physical ability to golf, albeit badly! I can't imagine how it must feel to really want to do something fun and not have the ability.
Life Coach:
Remember, you can choose to have fun or be mad when bad golf rounds happen. Just remember those less fortunate than yourself.
Homework:
Spend some time with your buddies! That's what life is all about! Thanks Erck!!!!
Monday, June 1, 2009
Hi all. I've been out working at my hunting place etc. I'm going to try and update this blog more often.
Silver Lining:
When we have trouble or problems with people we care about, why does it bother us so much? You know it's only because we care so darn much for them. The silver lining of these problems or challenges is at least we have them. I mean it's much better to have little issues from time to time and solve them. It really can make your relationship with that other person stronger. As long as you respect and truly care for someone it should all be good! Anytime you put some of your heart in someone else's hand it can be scary but what should be even more scary is the thought of never having close friends or a boyfriend/girlfriend.
It could be worse:
There are people out there that have given up on caring relationships. I feel bad for them. I would hate to go through life without having the great relationships that I do. So the next time you are frustrated with a loved one, just think about how it would feel if they weren't around.
Life coach:
Put yourself out there. Be vulnerable. I know it's scary but those that risk the most are often rewarded. Remember that the true measurement of your worth in this life are the people that care for you. Oh, and the only thing you can control is your own actions so love without a care in the world! Great things will follow!
Homework:
Take an emotional risk with someone you care about. Stop thinking about the bad that could happen and set yourself up for success!
Silver Lining:
When we have trouble or problems with people we care about, why does it bother us so much? You know it's only because we care so darn much for them. The silver lining of these problems or challenges is at least we have them. I mean it's much better to have little issues from time to time and solve them. It really can make your relationship with that other person stronger. As long as you respect and truly care for someone it should all be good! Anytime you put some of your heart in someone else's hand it can be scary but what should be even more scary is the thought of never having close friends or a boyfriend/girlfriend.
It could be worse:
There are people out there that have given up on caring relationships. I feel bad for them. I would hate to go through life without having the great relationships that I do. So the next time you are frustrated with a loved one, just think about how it would feel if they weren't around.
Life coach:
Put yourself out there. Be vulnerable. I know it's scary but those that risk the most are often rewarded. Remember that the true measurement of your worth in this life are the people that care for you. Oh, and the only thing you can control is your own actions so love without a care in the world! Great things will follow!
Homework:
Take an emotional risk with someone you care about. Stop thinking about the bad that could happen and set yourself up for success!
Monday, May 25, 2009
OK OK, I know its been awhile again. But geez, I've been busy having fun and living life!
Silver Lining:All right, here's the deal. I just got back up to our hunting/fishing getaway to get it ready for the summer and fall with the other two guys that partner with me. We went to start the water and there was a hole in the water heater! That was frustrating. The good news here is at least we have water, we bi-passed the heater so now we just have cold water. Hey, when we first had the place last year we didn't have hot water for a month or 2 and we lived. What a beautiful and peaceful place to spend the time.
It Could Be Worse:I could go back to not having a great place to go to hunt and fish! I mean this place rocks! Thanks to Trin (Bubba) for stumbling onto the place! Love ya man!
Life Coach:Find a place to unwind. Life is way to short and stressful! You owe it to yourself! Remember to take care of you, then all else will fall into place.
Homework:Unwind! Nuff said.
Silver Lining:All right, here's the deal. I just got back up to our hunting/fishing getaway to get it ready for the summer and fall with the other two guys that partner with me. We went to start the water and there was a hole in the water heater! That was frustrating. The good news here is at least we have water, we bi-passed the heater so now we just have cold water. Hey, when we first had the place last year we didn't have hot water for a month or 2 and we lived. What a beautiful and peaceful place to spend the time.
It Could Be Worse:I could go back to not having a great place to go to hunt and fish! I mean this place rocks! Thanks to Trin (Bubba) for stumbling onto the place! Love ya man!
Life Coach:Find a place to unwind. Life is way to short and stressful! You owe it to yourself! Remember to take care of you, then all else will fall into place.
Homework:Unwind! Nuff said.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Hi there!
Silver Lining:
I woke up today and it was 34 degrees!! What the heck. Does crappy weather ever get you down? It sure gets me bummed from time to time. I WANT SOME SUMMER! Well, the good news is when summer does get here I am going to appreciate the heck out of it. No staying inside for me! I'm going to golf, fish, jetski etc. Remember to never take a beautiful day for granted!
It Could Be Worse:
I heard in Winnipeg it's supposed to snow! I also know that the North and South Pole aren't warm...OK I know I'm stretching here but geez.....34 degrees in May!!!!
Life Coach:
OK seriously, we get to choose what brings us down. If you let the weather get to you, that's your fault. Just try to make the most of the day you are given.
Homework:
Be happy, it's your choice!
Silver Lining:
I woke up today and it was 34 degrees!! What the heck. Does crappy weather ever get you down? It sure gets me bummed from time to time. I WANT SOME SUMMER! Well, the good news is when summer does get here I am going to appreciate the heck out of it. No staying inside for me! I'm going to golf, fish, jetski etc. Remember to never take a beautiful day for granted!
It Could Be Worse:
I heard in Winnipeg it's supposed to snow! I also know that the North and South Pole aren't warm...OK I know I'm stretching here but geez.....34 degrees in May!!!!
Life Coach:
OK seriously, we get to choose what brings us down. If you let the weather get to you, that's your fault. Just try to make the most of the day you are given.
Homework:
Be happy, it's your choice!
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